There is so much to prepare for during pregnancy, to make sure we are ready for baby's arrival. But one thing that can often get forgotten in the bustle (or as in my case - not prepared in time), is your hospital bag. Ashton arrived six weeks early so I didn't get a chance to take the birth class let alone pack my bag. So I asked the experienced moms in our KTC Insiders group, what advice they have to give a new parent-to-be when it comes to what to pack in that bag. And it's not a bad idea to have it...
If your child does end up biting someone else, try to not overreact. Remember that any attention (even negative) reinforces behaviours. So try to count to ten, or take a deep breath, or do anything else to calm your initial feelings of frustration, annoyance or embarrassment. Use a short sentence to let your child know that biting is not okay, like "no biting" or "biting hurts". Then switch your attention to the person your child bit. Simply say "Look! Your friend is crying because you bit her and biting hurts". Showing sympathy and directing your energy to the person who was bitten will teach your child that biting does not give them more attention and also teaches them empathy. It connects their behaviour (biting) with the result (friend crying).
In order for a child to be happy and feel secure, they need a healthy self-esteem and self-confidence. This will allow for better learning and more success, as well as a good attitude about trying new things. But building confidence is more than just heaping praise over your child. Here are some tips:
So you've found a diaper bag that fits your style, now the question is, what do you put in it to be ready for an outing with baby? It goes without saying that you'll be packing diapers and wipes for those inevitable on-the-go diaper changes. But what else? In order to keep you prepared, without overloading on unnecessary stuff, we asked our parent community in our KTC Insiders group what top 5 things you can find in their diaper bag. Here are their answers:
Whether you are parenting together or apart, together you are preparing your children for the rest of their lives. You can always agree on one thing: You both love your child and only want the best for them. Always come back to that when the rift seems too big to patch.